As I did last year, I'm posting my annual Christmas letter with accompanying photograph on the blog for all those of you who aren't on my card list. If you would like to be added, just send me an email by viewing my profile, and I'll be more than happy to oblige for next year. Better yet, add me to your card list, and then you're sure to get one in return from a most grateful recipient. There is nothing I love better at Christmas than receiving actual cards in the mail. Our cards should be going out today. It took me a lot longer this year than I had anticipated. Although the letter was written weeks ago, signing, addressing, and stuffing the cards takes a while, not to mention the photograph debacle. I had to cancel our appointment 4 times in the last few weeks due to scheduling conflicts, illness, etc. Finally, this week with no more available time slots and a stack of cards screaming to be mailed, Trey and I decided it would be more prudent to send out one nice picture we had taken ourselves, saving the hassle of a trip to the photographer for the post-Christmas lull while we're in Atlanta like we did last year. Fittingly, as I write this afternoon, it is sleeting like crazy outside, and the 10-day forecast has snow predicted for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. I'm too jaded to get my hopes up, but I can honestly say that in my 27 years on this earth, other than in my fevered mind, I have never been teased with the hope of a white Christmas by anything so "concrete" as an actual weather prognostication, and to top it all off, my amaryllis is about to bloom. The bud has just split and I can see the tiniest blush of red beneath its surface. It's going to be a good Christmas!

Christmas 2008
Dear Friends and Family,
What could be more appropriate than writing the annual Christmas letter amidst the falling snow? Here I find myself, just one week before Thanksgiving with soft, gentle flurries filling the air, making Christmas seem days, not weeks, away. The year past has been full and rich marked by the unexpected and the bittersweet. We have said goodbye to our Scottish home, Aberdeen, and returned to the only other home we have ever known as a married couple, Philadelphia. As this time of year brings deeper reflection upon the birth of our Savior, I am struck anew by how His life here began at a time of great personal uncertainty for his parents, while they were sojourners far from home. It seems only fitting to find ourselves in a similar situation. We are between graduation, jobs, homes, even children, if you will. Our lives are in a state of flux, yet despite this pervasive uncertainty, I derive daily strength in knowing that one thing never changes, our great God. In fact, the words of James 1.17, words which have brought me much comfort in the moving process, echo the Incarnation: "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change."
Trey's year at times progressed at an almost frenetic pace. When we returned mid-January to Aberdeen from our Christmas visit, he was so energized to be done lecture preparation and to be able to actually work on his thesis again that in no short order he completed two chapters in two months. At the end of March he made a research trip down to Oxford to visit the famed and exclusive Bodleian Library and then up to Cambridge for a conference at which he presented a paper. He continued tutoring homeschool students via Skype through May, and then this summer worked diligently to complete and revise as much of his dissertation as possible before we returned to the US at the end of August. We first began discussing the possibility of coming home earlier than originally planned in the springtime. At first it seemed like a distant hypothetical, but after much thought and prayer, the catalyst for returning was the offer of an adjunct teaching opportunity with Westminster Theological Seminary in Dallas for the fall term. Both of us continue to be amazed at how clearly God has directed our path in the decision to pursue further education at the University of Aberdeen even confirming exactly when the right time was to leave by bringing a completely unsolicited teaching position into our lives. This has given us great peace as we have proceeded with our plans, feeling the hand of God directing each step of our way.
Looking after two active, inquisitive, and tireless little boys fills all my days to the brim. Watching Davis grow from a little baby to a sturdy toddler, seeing Addison progress from chattering toddler to inquiring boy at an almost imperceptible daily rate which cumulatively builds to unbelievable overall change and development thrills and delights while simultaneously saddening me, which is why, I guess, I keep having babies. Yes, the big news in my life is the expected arrival of our third child in March next year, and just a few weeks ago we learned that baby #3 is a girl. It is hard to imagine another female in the Holloway household, a home in which the boys have long outnumbered the girls, but I am confident we will adapt swimmingly. While still in Aberdeen, I became very involved this past year in helping to organize and develop a Baby and Toddler Playgroup at our church, Gilcomston South. I watched it grow from a fledgling group from the church to an ever-expanding array of new families from the community. The mother's prayer group which met monthly at my house had lifted this outreach opportunity up before the throne many times, and just as we were leaving Aberdeen it gave me such joy to see those prayers answered. I was also very involved this past year in developing and writing for the new Aberdeen Women's Fellowship website, an online resource for international families moving to Aberdeen. It was the brain child of a few committed women with a heart for all the people, like us, who sacrifice so much to study abroad. The Knit Wits, my monthly knitting circle, also continued, and when we moved back to Philadelphia I scoped out some interested parties here. Thus, the South Jersey franchise is now thriving alongside its Scottish counterpart, and with the news of our expected baby girl, I am thrilled to delve into the countless girl knitting patterns upon which until now I had only wistfully glanced.
Davis continues to amaze us with his individuality. After slow first year growth, he has steadily climbed the charts his second year in both weight and height, defying all conventional wisdom for children's growth patterns. He took his jolly old time deciding to walk, but when he finally did at 16 months, he lost no time in adding fearless climbing to his skills. He is now agile beyond his age. The same has proven true with his speech. For a long time I wondered when he was going to say anything at all, but, practically skipping the individual words stage, he went right to little phrases. He loves to sit quietly and flip through colorful picture books or line up his cars and trains along the table edge and run them back and forth. I love his independence, tenacity, and elfish smile. He is stubborn yet even-keeled, compliant but no pushover. He loves to tackle his brother when they are getting changed in the morning or for bed, and I can hear their priceless chatter long past lights out at night. The deep bond between these two polar opposite boys is strong and growing all the time. I am eager to see how he reacts to a new baby in the house. He seems to have been blessed with that pleasant adaptability inherent to not being born first, and the caring instincts I see in him as he lovingly kisses my belly or cradles his cars, which he has dubbed his "babies", lead me to believe he will embrace his new role with enthusiasm.
The great milestone of this past year for Addison, and highlight for me, was potty training, which occurred right around his third birthday thanks to a little egg timer and a cup full of Smarties. It marked a real transition from babyness into childhood, and I can't say I'm sorry to see that aspect go. Above all, Addison loves to talk and as his mind has developed the questions have come at such a lightening pace I quickly run out of answers. His gregarious nature has continued to blossom, and it's as though the old adage was written with him in mind. The world is, indeed, his oyster. From the meter reader at the door to the sweet old lady in the grocery store, Addison readily embraces all people with the innocent acceptance of early childhood. He asks them questions about themselves and tries to engage them as though they were old friends. It is both hilarious and, at times, completely embarrassing, like when he informed the boozy old man who reeked of cigarettes sitting next to us on the bus, "You are coughing," or when he asked one of the painters at my parents' house, "Will you hold me?" He loves all vehicles, trains, planes, automobiles, buses, and taxis, and took great delight in sampling all such modes of transportation this past year in our travels in, around, to, and from Scotland. With the same alacrity of two years ago, Addison easily adapted to our new life back in the US, quickly making new best friends in his Sunday School classes and rediscovering the joys of regularly riding in the car, but above all, he has basked in the glow of all the loved ones he gets to see so often now.
Last, but not least, in July we took a 3-day family holiday to London to see that great city which we just couldn't miss before we left the island. It was an unforgettable adventure, staying in a youth hostel, navigating the streets and double-decker buses with our double buggy, and soaking in as many of the sights as two small boys and three short days would allow. Even so we managed to see among others the Aquarium, the Tower, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, take a city bus tour and a Thames boat cruise, ride the Eye, and attend Evensong at St. Paul's. What a send-off!
As I peer into the future, I can hardly anticipate what the coming year will hold. Some years the months seem to stretch out with a degree of certainty and monotony, but like its immediate predecessor, that's not true of this year. We don't know where we will be moving or even when we will, and so ever more tenaciously we cling to the promise of our Savior in Jeremiah 29.11, "'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" For us that assurance means enjoying the now, the opportunity to be with family so readily, and to visit familiar and beloved places. We rest in the knowledge that our great King is on His throne and we wish for you the comfort and peace that comes with knowing, "My times are in your hand." (Psalm 31.15) We wish you a joyful, relaxing Christmas and a prosperous, peaceful new year.
Lots of love,
Becky
(for all the Holloways)